Migrant dad who raised six frontline NHS workers dies of Covid with daughter at bedside

Retired maths and computer science teacher Ahsan-ul-Haq Chaudry (Image: Saleya Ahsan / SWNS)

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A dad who died of Covid despite shielding has been praised for leaving behind the ultimate legacy – six children who all work on the NHS front line.

Tributes have poured in for retired maths teacher Ahsan-ul-Haq Chaudry praising his hard work in raising an ITU doctor, two GPs, a junior doctor, a paediatric consultant and a pharmacist.

The proud dad died aged 81 in Queen's Hospital, Romford, where his daughter is a GP, after he was initially admitted to accident and emergency where his son works.

He came to UK in the late 1950s as a poverty-stricken 19-year-old after fleeing partition violence in India and worked multiple jobs to support his kids through education.

Beloved dad Mr Chaudry with his son Dr Shoaib Ahsan (left)
(Image: Ahsan family / SWNS)

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All six of his children have been at the forefront of the NHS fight against Covid and sacrificed time with their father so they could care for others.

Mr Chaudry died from coronavirus on December 28 despite adhering to all government guidelines and staying at home in east London since last March.

His family have paid tribute to their 'humble' dad for giving them the support to fulfil their dreams despite limited financial means.

Mr Chaudry, a retired maths and computer science teacher, had lived an active lifestyle until the start of the pandemic.

But his age and underlying health conditions meant he had to shield since the first outbreak.

Mr Chaudry's six children from left to right: Dr Shoaib Ahsan, Dr Safiyah Ahsan, Dr Syira Ahsan, Dr Saleyha Ahsan and Shazlee Ahsan
(Image: Ahsan family / SWNS)

He was just weeks away from having the vaccine when he died with his daughter – ITU doctor Dr Saleyha Ahsan – by his bedside.

She dealt with Covid patients throughout the pandemic but said nothing could have prepared her for watching her own dad deteriorate so rapidly.

And Saleyha said they are only now taking stock of his amazing life.

The daughter told how her father had left behind the ultimate legacy of six NHS worker children despite coming from such modest means.

She said: "He had six children, including five doctors and one pharmacist, and we have been tackling Covid all year. It's been brutal.

"We all stayed away from our father for extended periods to keep him safe as we were seeing and caring for Covid patients.

"He shielded all year but somehow it still got through.

Ahsan-ul-Haq Chaudry with members of his family
(Image: Saleya Ahsan / SWNS)

"We never really stopped to consider his legacy until now and it is only now speaking to people about my dad and getting that feedback you realise how special it is.

"We probably almost took him for granted for what he helped us to achieve. I hope not, but it was just our normal, having our parents support us to do what we could.

"It is only now stepping back that you realise – what a legacy. I could not have achieved half as much as my dad.

"What he did as a migrant who came with nothing to building this all up was incredible. He was very humble about it and never made a big deal out of anything."

Saleyha, 50, began her career as a journalist before completing Army officer training at Sandhurst.

She decided to get into medicine while serving in Bosnia in 1997, and meeting trauma victims who badly needed treatment.

Her sister Syira, 48, had already become a GP after starting training straight out of school while brother Shazlee, 47, became a pharmacist.

From left to right: Dr Saima Ahsan, Dr Saleyha Ahsan, Dr Safiyah Ahsan and Dr Syira Ahsan
(Image: Ahsan family / SWNS)

Of the younger siblings Saima, 38, is now a paediatric consultant at St Mary's Hospital while Safiyah, also 38, is a GP. Brother Shoaib, 32, currently works as a junior doctor.

All have been involved in treating and supporting Covid patients during the pandemic.

Saleyha, who splits her time between working as a journalist in London and a doctor on ITU in Bangor, Wales, added: "I got into medicine at the age of 30, which was late.

"The others went into it straight from school. My sister was first and became a GP and I think that inspired the others.

"They all thought about other things, but they all came back to medicine.

"I guess our brains all work in a pretty similar way and we just wanted to do something that counts and to help people.

"Despite what his kids achieved he would still get frustrated with us and was still in desperate need to sort out our lives. We could be a dysfunctional lot sometimes, but we have kept grounded as there were no airs or graces about him.

Dr Saleyha Ahsan holding her father's hand in his final moments
(Image: Ahsan family / SWNS)

"He always encouraged us and was very proud – especially when I passed out at Sandhurst, which not many from my background managed to achieve.

"He was incredibly supportive of all of us."

Mr Chaudry was just eight years old during the bloody India and Pakistan partition in 1947.

As a teenager he left and never returned, before becoming widowed when his wife Fauzia Ahsa died in 2019.

Despite his hardships, Mr Chaudry never failed to provide for his family and even worked weekends while the kids were still in school to help pay for their tuition.

Saleyha added: "He left his old life all behind after what he witnessed as a child.

"There was a bit of a gap between his first three children and the younger three. They were unplanned, but were a real joy and wonderful for my dad in his later years. They are all in their early 30s now, but he got to do it all again with them.

"We were not a well off family and he would often work as a security guard at the weekend to make ends meet.

"When we started to need more support in academic studies to pass exams he would do extra work to pay for our tuition."

Saleyha said he had become a bit unwell over the last few years and suffered with asthma and heart failure but had got it all under control.

"He had a busy social life pre-Covid and was very active and prominent in the community,' she added.

Mr Chaudry's children praised him for working hard to give them the best life he could
(Image: Ahsan family / SWNS)

"He had been shielding all year – we don't know how he contracted Covid – maybe after a sibling's shopping trip? Maybe the carer who went out on his day off? We just don't know.

"We had been as careful as possible but somehow it got through.

"Covid was really challenging for him as he was confined to the house but he was really strict with himself and kept with it.

"We tried to work out ways to be safe for him and I was able to become one of his recognised carers.

"We were just looking forward greatly to all go out again with the arrival of the vaccine. I would make sure I was ten days clear before visiting him but for four weeks in November and December I had been full on shifts.

"Before I could go to the house he was taken unwell."

Saleyha added: "When he was told it was Covid he just smiled and said 'That is the thing making everything shut down.' He coped by diffusing the situation.

"He just took it all as it came and did not complain once.

"It was hard watching him, but as his full time carer at home I was able to stay with him for five days. I just camped in his room and it was really harrowing and was scary watching your father not able to breathe. Despite 14 years of being a doctor I thought I was going to pass out.

"I have looked after so many Covid patients but on ITU you are not with them 24/7.

"They have been incubated and asleep and we hope oblivious to what was going on but my dad was awake the whole time."

Saleyha urged everyone to take the new lockdown seriously after witnessing the trauma of Covid from both a personal and professional perspective.

She added: "All I can say is thank goodness we have had the lockdown as it was clear that a lot of people did not understand the tiers and people were pushing the boundaries.

"We are in dire straits and people have just got to come together and show some compassion. We need to be selfless as a community to tackle this and just got to get our head down and deal with it. We will come out the other side but we can't take shortcuts.

"The last few weeks have been like watching a car crash happen and no-one making any attempts to stop this. During each wave we have had the time and predictions so why is it we have only acted in a reactionary way and not in a preventative one?

"Sadly, the government is taking people down with them."

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